One of the hardest things when a loved family member dies is sorting through their things and deciding what should happen with them. It's the same when a much loved pet dies. I knew that I'd take Archie's beds, bedding and towels, along with some other bits and pieces, to the Dogs Trust, it's a charity we've supported in the past and they can always make use of these things. I got everything washed, dried and folded ready to go quite soon after Archie died but it was quite a while before I could actually part with them. It's the letting go, isn't it, another little piece of him gone.
Of course, we didn't take everything, there's some things we kept, like his bowls. I decided they'd make good planters and they'd be somewhere I'd see them everyday, just like when he was still here with us. There's no holes for drainage so I made sure to put plenty of little stones in the bottom before I filled them with compost. This was Archie's water bowl. I chose a delosperma Red Mountain and I think it looks lovely when the sun's shining on it.
It doesn't look quite so good when it's covered in shade, the flowers hide away.
I did the same thing with Archie's food bowl. This is a saxifraga White Blush though it isn't looking quite so good at the moment as the flowers appear in spring. We enjoyed them while they lasted and I'm looking forward to it flowering again next year.
I have lots of pots and containers in the garden so these don't look out of place and they're a reminder, as if I need one, of Archie.
Oh I love this idea, and it's like a little part of him is still in the garden. When we lost Millie and Molly they were both taken from home wrapped in their blankets. I couldn't keep their beds around too long as it was too upsetting for me so I did get rid of them quite quickly afterwards, although I do have both their ashes in the bookcase and very often say 'hello girls'.
ReplyDeleteI have cat bowls in the garden as planters, we kept loads of bits knowing we would have another cat.
ReplyDeleteThat's a lovely way to use the bowls and remember Archie. Losing a beloved member of the family is always so hard.
ReplyDeleteBest wishes
Ellie
Letting go is so hard. We have a bag full of collars, and identity discs that we cannot part with. Using Archie's bowls as planters is a lovely idea.
ReplyDeleteThat's a lovely idea. X
ReplyDeleteThat is such a wonderful way to remember you sweet Archie.
ReplyDeleteThat is a lovely and very special way to remember Archie.
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful tribute to Archie. I know these feelings well.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful idea! I couldn't get rid of our pups' bowls either.
ReplyDeleteLovely post and pictures. That's a wonderful idea, and I like the plants you've chosen. xx
ReplyDeleteJo, what a wonderful idea this is, such a special way to remember Archie.
ReplyDeleteAll the best Jan
A lovely idea Jo and thanks for sharing. Take care & hugs.
ReplyDeleteThat's such a good idea and such a lovely way to remember Archie. I saw a dog the other day that reminded me of him.
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